This day thirteen years ago was a hard day for me. My best friend Valerie died in a tragic car accident. I reflect back on the last thirteen years and see how much my life has change. There is not much left of the person I once was. Valerie was my best friend from when we were both wearing pig tails. Although we were eager to get rid of them and grow up too fast. All of my teenage years are memories of Valerie. Valerie loved animals and loved spending time with her kitties. She could burp her ABC's and would have many burping contest with her 5 sisters. She loved to laugh and there was rarely a dull moment with her. It makes me a little sad to see how life goes on and our loved ones that have passed just become memories. I am so happy for Valerie! I know she has progressed and has learned so much. I am sure that she has had a hand in my progression here on earth. I love you Valerie! Thank you for all of the GREAT memories! (these few songs were important to us)
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Amber - I remember when I was younger seeing Valerie's pictures on your wall and wondering what had happened, but too scared to ask. The bond you had must have and still is wonderful. I think she has definatly been rooting for you on the other side. Have a great day!
Wow, I remember you said we looked alike and you weren't kidding. You and I have so much in common too. My best friend from my childhood/teens passed too remember? Thanks for sharing with us. Justine
Wow, you have entered the blogging world! I am so excited!
When I opened up your blog and saw Valerie's pictures, it brought back memories. I never met her, but I saw your friendship first hand those months before she passed away. I remember vividly when Joel and I took you over to her parents house to say goodbye after you had both been visiting Farmington, she had already left and you were so upset. You were crying and we asked what was wrong and you said, "I just know I am never going to see her again". The night she passed away was a night I will never forget, and watching how much you suffered was so hard, but I know there was a reason I was there, and I learned so much through the experiences I had with you and your family. I cannot believe it has been 13 years, and just think of all of the things that have happened. I know she and Joel and all of those people you have loved and lost are looking down on you and are so proud of the amazing woman you have become. I love that I am still able to be a part of your life, even after all of this time.
Amber, I can't read what you have blogged. I remember you and your friend Valerie. You love her so much! I remember you coming to the salon and getting your hair done and sharing memories of you two with me. There were moments when you would be laughing about you two, then your laughter would turn to tears. What an amazing woman you are. You have many angels looking over you.
Our eternal friendships mean SO much! Certainly Valerie has been there for you and your family over the years!
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